Safety center
Safety & fairness
Her Past Matters is designed for dating safety, informed decision-making, scam prevention, and community support. It is not a platform for revenge, humiliation, or targeting people.
🛡️ For platform members
Your identity is kept private from other members
You can post anonymously
You can delete your posts or account anytime
Your email is never shared or published
Moderation decisions can be appealed
⚖️ For people being discussed
You can report inaccurate content
You can dispute a post and provide context
You can request removal of prohibited personal information
You can appeal any moderation decision
You can report impersonation or harassment
What Her Past Matters prohibits
Threats or harassment of any kind
Doxxing — sharing private home addresses or identifying details
Revenge content posted to punish or embarrass someone
Explicit or intimate images without consent
Non-consensual sexual content
Unsupported or unverified criminal accusations
Hate speech or discrimination
Coordinated attacks or pile-ons
Impersonation of any person or organization
Blackmail or extortion
Content about or identifying minors
Encouraging users to confront or contact someone